Hanoi With Kids

PACK YOUR BAGS! HANOI IS CALLING: THE ONLY TRAVEL GUIDE YOU NEED!

We spent our first stretch of a three week trip through Vietnam doing Hanoi with kids, and I will be honest, the first hour felt like a lot. The traffic never really stops, the sidewalks belong to the scooters, and you cross the road by walking slowly and trusting everyone to go around you. Then it clicks, and it turns into a city we were sad to leave. Here is everything we worked out, including where to stay, what we would skip next time, and what actually held our girls’ attention.

Hanoi, the vibrant capital of Vietnam, seamlessly blends rich history with modern charm. During our recent family trip, we immersed ourselves in its bustling streets, tranquil lakes, and delectable cuisine. Staying at the JW Marriott Hotel Hanoi provided a luxurious retreat from the city’s energetic pace. Here’s a comprehensive guide based on our experiences, offering insights into where to stay, unique activities, must-try foods, and essential tips for your visit.

Where to Crash in Hanoi:

Old Quarter

The heart of Hanoi, characterized by narrow streets, traditional shophouses, and a lively atmosphere. Ideal for first-time visitors eager to be in the midst of local life. Staying here means you’re within walking distance of major attractions, street food stalls, and night markets.

French Quarter

Known for its wide boulevards, colonial architecture, and upscale boutiques. This area offers a more relaxed ambiance compared to the Old Quarter. It’s perfect for travelers seeking luxury accommodations and a quieter environment. Landmarks like the Hanoi Opera House and high-end restaurants are prominent here.

Tay Ho (West Lake)
A picturesque area surrounding the largest freshwater lake in Hanoi. Popular among expats and those desiring a serene stay with scenic views. The neighborhood boasts a mix of local eateries and international cuisines, trendy cafes, and a vibrant nightlife. It’s an excellent choice for families and long-term visitors.

Ba Dinh
Home to significant historical sites such as the Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum and the Presidential Palace. This district is ideal for culture enthusiasts wanting to delve into Vietnam’s history. The area is less crowded, offering a peaceful stay with easy access to museums and monuments.

Hai Ba Trung
A bustling district that provides a glimpse into everyday Vietnamese life. Away from the typical tourist trails, it’s perfect for travelers looking to explore local markets, temples, and enjoy authentic Vietnamese cuisine. The area also features several parks and lakes, adding to its charm.

Truc Bach
A quaint neighborhood adjacent to West Lake, offering a blend of local and expat communities. Known for its culinary scene, especially the famous Pho Cuon (rolled noodles). The area is family-friendly, with quiet streets and a variety of cafes and restaurants.

Cau Giay
A rapidly developing district that’s becoming a commercial hub. It’s suitable for business travelers and those seeking a local vibe away from touristy areas. The district offers numerous shopping centers, parks, and a range of dining options.

Our Stay at JW Marriott Hotel Hanoi:

We chose the JW Marriott Hotel Hanoi for its exceptional amenities and family-friendly services. Located slightly outside the city center, the hotel offers a peaceful retreat from the bustling streets of Hanoi. The property boasts five outstanding restaurants, each offering diverse culinary experiences. Our children particularly enjoyed the sushi restaurant, while we relished the dim sum and French cuisine.

The indoor pool, situated on the top floor under a glass dome, provided a unique swimming experience, though an outdoor pool would have been preferable given the humidity. The hotel also offers complimentary art programs for kids, which our children found engaging and fun. While its location requires a drive into the city center, the tranquil environment and top-notch facilities made it worthwhile. We utilized Marriott Bonvoy points for our stay, making it an excellent value for the luxury provided.

Unusual Things You Can Do in Hanoi:

Hanoi has its fair share of unique and offbeat experiences, from century-old traditions to unexpected discoveries in its vibrant street markets. Here are some of the most unusual things you can do in the city:

Hanoi’s Train Street
Nestled within the city’s labyrinthine streets, Train Street offers a unique experience where trains pass just inches away from residential homes and cafes. Visitors can sit at one of the trackside cafes, sipping on Vietnamese coffee, and feel the exhilarating rush as the train whizzes by. It’s essential to check the train schedule beforehand and always prioritize safety by adhering to local guidelines.

Thang Long Water Puppet Theatre
A traditional art form that dates back to the 11th century, water puppetry showcases puppets dancing on water, accompanied by live music and narration. The Thang Long Theatre offers multiple shows daily, providing insights into Vietnamese folklore and culture. It’s a mesmerizing experience suitable for all ages. Booking tickets in advance is recommended due to its popularity.

Hanoi Ceramic Mosaic Mural
Stretching approximately 4 kilometers along the Red River dyke, this mural holds the Guinness World Record for the largest ceramic mosaic. It depicts various aspects of Vietnamese culture, history, and art. Strolling alongside the mural offers a vibrant visual journey through the nation’s heritage. It’s an open-air artwork, accessible at any time, making it a perfect addition to a leisurely walk.

Binh Minh Jazz Club
For music enthusiasts, this club offers an intimate setting to enjoy live jazz performances by both local and international artists. Located near the Hanoi Opera House, it’s an excellent spot to unwind after a day of exploration. The cozy ambiance, coupled with a wide selection of drinks, makes for a memorable evening. Shows typically start in the evening, and arriving early ensures good seating.

Phan Dinh Phung Street
Renowned for its stunning French colonial architecture and ancient dracontomelum trees, this street offers a picturesque setting for leisurely walks. It’s less crowded than other parts of the city, allowing visitors to appreciate the historic buildings and serene environment. Photographers will find ample opportunities to capture the essence of Hanoi’s colonial past.

What You Should Skip in Hanoi:

Silk Village

While the village is known for its traditional silk weaving, it feels overly commercialized. If you’re looking for authentic silk products, you may find better quality elsewhere. Many vendors sell mass-produced goods, and the experience lacks the charm of other artisan villages in Vietnam.

Overpriced Cyclo Tours

Some cyclo (three-wheeled bicycle taxi) drivers overcharge tourists, and the experience can feel staged. If you want a cyclo ride, agree on a price beforehand or opt for a guided city tour that includes it.

Dong Xuan Market

Though it’s one of the largest markets in Hanoi, it’s chaotic and mainly caters to wholesalers rather than casual shoppers. Better street shopping experiences can be found in the Old Quarter, where you can find more unique items.

Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum on Busy Days

Long queues and strict regulations can make this visit frustrating. Security is strict, and you may feel rushed. If visiting, go early in the morning on a weekday to avoid peak crowds.

Touristy Bars in the Old Quarter

Bars catering to tourists often have inflated prices and lack the authenticity of Hanoi’s hidden speakeasies. Instead, seek out rooftop bars like The Summit Lounge or The Lighthouse Sky Bar for a more refined experience.

Don’t Miss These in Hanoi:

Water Puppet Show

A must-see performance featuring intricately crafted puppets gliding over water, accompanied by live traditional Vietnamese music. The show provides a fascinating glimpse into Vietnamese folklore and history.

Walking Around Hoàn Kiếm Lake at Night

The lake transforms into a social hub in the evenings, with locals dancing, playing games, and enjoying street performances. On weekends, nearby streets close to traffic, creating a lively pedestrian zone perfect for an evening stroll.

Vietnamese Egg Coffee at Cafe Giảng

This Hanoi specialty features rich, frothy egg yolk mixed with coffee for a uniquely creamy experience. Cafe Giảng is the best place to try it, with a secret alley entrance adding to the adventure.

Exploring the Old Quarter

A chaotic yet charming maze of streets packed with history, unique boutiques, and the best street food in Hanoi. Don’t miss Train Street, where a train rushes past within inches of sidewalk cafes.

Visit the Temple of Literature

Hanoi’s oldest university and a stunning architectural gem. If you love history, culture, or just beautiful, peaceful places, the Temple of Literature is a must-see in Hanoi. Built in 1070, it was Vietnam’s first national university, dedicated to Confucius and scholars. Walking through its courtyards, lotus ponds, and ancient pavilions feels like stepping back in time.

Scams to Watch Out For in Hanoi:

Taxi Overcharging

Some taxi drivers don’t use meters and charge inflated fares. Use reputable taxi companies like Mai Linh or Grab instead.

Fake Tour Operators

Be cautious of unauthorized street vendors selling cheap tours; they may not deliver as promised. Always book through verified travel agencies or online platforms.

Street Vendors Overpricing

Many street sellers target tourists with inflated prices. Bargaining is expected, so negotiate before purchasing.

Motorbike Rental Scams

Some rental shops claim the bike was damaged upon return and demand high fees. Always take photos of the bike before renting and get everything in writing.

Fake Charity Scams

Beware of individuals asking for donations for “schools” or “orphans.” If you want to give back, donate through established NGOs.

Useful Travel Tips for Hanoi:

Tipping Culture:

Not expected but appreciated. Round up taxi fares or leave small tips at restaurants.

Tap Water:

Not safe to drink, stick to bottled or boiled water.

Electrical Plugs:

Uses voltage 220V, plug types A, C, and F. Bring a universal adapter.

Crossing the Street:

Traffic may seem chaotic, but locals are used to pedestrians. Walk steadily and don’t hesitate.

Street Food Safety:

Eat at stalls with long lines of locals and ensure food is freshly cooked.

Must-Try Foods in Hanoi:

Hanoi’s culinary scene is a vibrant tapestry of flavors, reflecting its rich cultural heritage. Here are some must-try dishes and recommended spots to savor them:

Phở Bò (Beef Noodle Soup)
A fragrant broth simmered with beef bones, star anise, and cinnamon, served over flat rice noodles and thinly sliced beef. Garnished with fresh herbs and a squeeze of lime. For an authentic experience, visit Phở Bò Thanh Béo at 50 Hàng Thiếc, Hoàn Kiếm.

Bún Chả
Best meal we had in Hanoi at Sen Trang a Vietnamese Restaurant. A little hard to find, on the second floor, entrance in alley, but worth it!! Grilled pork patties and slices served in a tangy fish sauce broth, accompanied by vermicelli noodles and fresh herbs. Famously enjoyed by President Obama at Bún Chả Hương Liên, located at 24 Lê Văn Hưu, Hai Bà Trưng.

Chả Cá Lã Vọng (Turmeric Fish with Dill)
White fish marinated in turmeric and galangal, fried with heaps of dill and green onions, served with vermicelli noodles and peanuts. A renowned spot to try this is Chả Cá Thăng Long at 6B Đường Thành, Hoàn Kiếm.

Bánh Cuốn
Delicate steamed rice rolls filled with minced pork and wood ear mushrooms, topped with fried shallots and served with a side of fish sauce. Head to Bánh Cuốn Gia Truyền Thanh Vân at 14 Hàng Gà, Hoàn Kiếm for a delectable taste.

Egg Coffee (Cà Phê Trứng)
A Hanoi specialty where robust coffee is topped with a creamy, whipped egg yolk mixture, creating a rich and velvety beverage. Café Giảng, located at 39 Nguyễn Hữu Huân, Hoàn Kiếm, is famed for this delightful drink.

Day Trip to Ninh Binh from Hanoi:

Ninh Bình, often referred to as the “Ha Long Bay on land,” offers breathtaking landscapes just a two-hour drive from Hanoi. Here’s how to make the most of your day trip:

Trang An Scenic Landscape Complex
Embark on a serene boat ride through a network of rivers and caves, surrounded by towering limestone karsts. The journey typically lasts 2-3 hours, with stops at various temples and caves. It’s advisable to start early to avoid crowds and bring sunscreen, a hat, and water.

Hang Múa (Múa Cave)
Climb approximately 500 stone steps to reach the summit, where panoramic views of the Tam Cốc rice fields and winding rivers await. The ascent can be steep, so wear comfortable shoes and consider visiting in the early morning or late afternoon to avoid the midday heat.

Hoa Lư Ancient Capital
Explore the remnants of Vietnam’s capital in the 10th and 11th centuries. The site features temples dedicated to past emperors and offers insights into the country’s rich history. A guide can enhance the experience with detailed narratives.

Cultural Norms & Etiquette in Hanoi:

Understanding local customs can enrich your travel experience. Here are some cultural norms to keep in mind:

Modest Dress in Religious Sites
When visiting temples or pagodas, wear clothing that covers your shoulders and knees as a sign of respect.

Removing Shoes Indoors
It’s customary to remove your shoes before entering someone’s home or certain establishments. Look for cues or ask if unsure.

Using Both Hands When Giving or Receiving
Offering or receiving items, especially money, with both hands is a gesture of respect.

Avoiding Public Displays of Affection
While holding hands is acceptable, more intimate gestures are considered private and are best reserved for secluded settings.

Respecting Elders
Always greet elders first and address them with appropriate titles. Showing deference to older individuals is deeply ingrained in Vietnamese culture.

Useful Vietnamese Phrases to Know:

Hello: Xin chào (sin chow)

Thank you: Cảm ơn (gahm uhn)

How much?: Bao nhiêu tiền? (bow nyew tee-en?)

Delicious!: Ngon quá! (ngon wah)

No plastic bag, please: Không cần túi nhựa (khong kuhn too-ee nyuh)

Traveling to Hanoi With Kids

Hanoi offers a unique and enriching experience for families, blending culture, history, and plenty of fun, kid-friendly activities. From exploring tranquil lakes to engaging in cultural performances, the city offers a mix of education and entertainment that will keep young travelers engaged and excited. Whether you’re strolling around Hoàn Kiếm Lake or enjoying a traditional water puppet show, Hanoi is sure to provide your family with memorable moments. Here are five kid-specific activities to make your Hanoi visit even more enjoyable:

Water Puppet Show at Thang Long Water Puppet Theatre

This cultural experience is a must for families. The show features colorful puppets gliding over water, accompanied by live traditional Vietnamese music.

It’s an entertaining way for kids to learn about local folklore and history in a fun, interactive format. Shows are held multiple times a day, but it’s recommended to book tickets in advance, especially during peak tourist seasons.

Hoàn Kiếm Lake and Weekend Pedestrian Zone

The lake area is ideal for a relaxing family walk, with lush green surroundings and historic monuments like Ngọc Sơn Temple. On weekends, the area turns into a pedestrian zone, making it safe for kids to explore.

There are also street performances, games, and local snacks to try, adding excitement for younger visitors. Bring a ball or kite to enjoy the open space, especially during the evening when the local community gathers.

The Hanoi Zoo

Located in Thu Le Park, the Hanoi Zoo is a great way for kids to see a variety of animals like tigers, monkeys, and exotic birds. It’s a smaller zoo, which is perfect for young children, as they can easily navigate through the exhibits without feeling overwhelmed.

The zoo also has a lovely park area for picnics, allowing families to unwind and enjoy some outdoor time.

Explore the Hanoi Museum of Ethnology

The museum offers a fascinating look into Vietnam’s diverse ethnic groups, with plenty of interactive exhibits that engage children.

Kids will love the outdoor area featuring full-sized replicas of traditional homes from various ethnic groups. It’s an educational experience that blends learning with fun exploration, perfect for curious minds.

Cyclo Ride Through the Old Quarter

Hop on a cyclo (traditional Vietnamese three-wheeled bicycle) for a unique ride through Hanoi’s bustling streets. While it may seem a bit touristy, kids will love the experience of cruising through the narrow alleys and bustling streets in a comfortable, open-air setting.

It’s a great way to see the city from a different perspective while getting a glimpse of Hanoi’s vibrant street life. These activities will make your family trip to Hanoi both fun and educational, giving your kids a chance to experience the city’s rich culture and lively atmosphere.

A personal experience that was a bit uncomfortable…

While exploring a street market behind the Silk Village, I came across something I was not prepared to see: a skinned, dead dog for sale. It was the only instance I encountered in our three weeks in Vietnam, but it was enough to shock me. I turned around immediately and made sure my family didn’t see it.

Dog meat consumption is a dying practice in Vietnam, mainly upheld by the older generations. Younger Vietnamese are actively discouraging their grandparents from eating it, and many people in Hanoi oppose the tradition. This moment was an eye-opening cultural encounter, reminding me that while some customs persist, change is happening within Vietnam’s society.

Final Thoughts on Hanoi With Kids

Despite its chaotic streets and unfamiliar customs, Hanoi offers an unforgettable blend of history, culture, and incredible food. From its charming Old Quarter to its peaceful lakes, there’s something for every traveler. And while some experiences (like the silk village) may not live up to the hype, gems like Cafe Giảng’s egg coffee, the charm of the Old Quarter and the day trip accessibility of Ninh Binh make this city an absolute must-visit.

Planning Hanoi With Kids

A few things we would tell a friend before they book. Give Hanoi more than one night. The Old Quarter puts you inside the noise and within walking distance of the street food, the night markets and the lake, which is the right call for a first visit, but it is loud. The French Quarter is the calmer trade off if your kids are light sleepers. We stayed at the JW Marriott, which sits outside the centre and needs a drive in each time, and that tranquil location plus the glass domed pool on the top floor is exactly what made the busy days survivable. The free kids art programs there bought us more quiet hours than we expected.

Pace the days. One big thing in the morning, the pool or the hotel through the worst of the heat, then back out in the evening when Hoan Kiem Lake fills up with people dancing and playing games. Save Ninh Binh for a day when everyone has slept, because the Trang An boat ride runs two to three hours and the climb at Mua Cave is roughly 500 steep stone steps. Do not drink the tap water, agree a price before you get into any cyclo, and skip Dong Xuan Market, which is built for wholesalers rather than families.

If you are still building the trip, our family trip planning guide covers how we map out a route like this one, and our family travel safety tips go further on the scam and street smart side that Hanoi really does ask of you. Hanoi also works well as a stopover on a long haul route, and if you are torn on where to sleep, we compared hotels versus Airbnb for families after plenty of both. For another city that overwhelms you before it wins you over, read Marrakech with kids.